This week’s LOVE Project features a very special, but completely unexpected event, which was a part of Daejeon’s Donghcundang Park’s 20th Cultural Festival. A traditional wedding ceremony, featuring yours truly and her less thrilled (actual) husband, took place on Saturday, April 22, 2016 from 2:30-3:30 pm.
The day started with us getting ready, which involved three layers of clothing for me and two for Garrett.
We’re taller and larger than typical Koreans, so getting into shoes was a bit of a challenge. Having to wear socks inside the shoes didn’t help the problem.
Did you know that unmarried women in Korea used to wear their hair down and after they got married, they were required to put it up?
Also, during the wedding the bride and groom didn’t know what the other one looked like, so they were required to cover up faces. The bride holds her hands at a nose level, while the groom has a nifty two handed fan.
The groom carries in a duck or a goose, as to signify that he, like the animals, will mate for life. Traditionally, these animals would be presented live to the bride’s family, but eventually evolved into a cheaper and more humane version – the wooden ones.
Throughout the ceremony, you can witness red and blue colors, where red symbolizes the female and blue – the male. The colors also embody the ying and yang of the relationship, bringing harmony and balance.
During the ceremony we:
- Washed our hands
- Bowed to each other a couple of times (this was confusing – half bow or full bow, luckily I had helpers to guide me along (and hold up my poor, tired arms)). Bowing represents commitment to each other.
- We knelt on a pillow and drank some rice wine
- We moved some acorns into a dish with chops sticks (I thought it was a silly joke, asking me to move giant acorns with 2 long plastic chopsticks. Thank you helpers, you made me look like a Rockstar!)
- We drank each other’s wine, while the helpers were tying up our blue and red strings and hung them on two trees.
- We also used some gourd dippers to drink out of, which were later combined into one – again to signify unity.
- All the while, poor announcers had a field day with our foreign names and pronunciation.
If you would like more concrete details about Korean weddings, I recommend visiting this post from Runaway Juno, she seemed to have had a better grasp on what was going on and why, hehe.
Again, it was a privilege to have been a part of this festival and this ceremony. Out transformations were pretty cool!
Have you ever been a part of a Korean ceremony? Tell me about it in the comments below.
Looking to fill the following categories:
In LOVE for/since
First: LOVE Yourself – a portrait
Unconditional LOVE – a pet story
Grow, laugh, LOVE – a kid’s story.
A City of LOVEly places
A little LOVE goes a long way – A home-cooked meal